Stop chasing red flags.
Start attracting real love.

Introducing the…

Secure Love Toolkit™

For Anxious Attachment Style

What if picking a secure partner was second nature?

It's time to break the cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable partners and repeating old anxious patterns, so you can attract the secure, loving relationship you desire.

Finally, A Guide to Choosing the Right Partner—No Guesswork, Just Clarity.

The Secure Love Toolkit™ for Anxious Attachment Style gives you everything you need to find your match and attract a secure relationship:

  • Recognize secure traits in a partner (and stop wasting time when it’s not a fit).

  • Assess what you really want in a relationship (and get clear on your non-negotiables).

  • Elevate your energy to attract a partner who’s all in, without playing games or second-guessing yourself.

Get your copy of The Secure Love Toolkit™ today

$147
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Tell me if this sounds like you:

  • You want to find and keep a secure, loving relationship.

  • You need to feel confident and emotionally safe as you date, so you can recognize and attract the right partner.

  • You have too much second-guessing and overthinking clouding your decisions and keeping you in anxious patterns.

  • You're over trying to convince yourself that this time will be different while repeating the same exhausting dating cycles.

  • You're tired of feeling overlooked, anxious, and confused about what it takes to actually find a healthy relationship.

  • You wish there was a way to get clear on what secure love looks like and align your mind and heart to draw it into your life—without feeling lost or stuck in self-doubt.

Get your copy of The Secure Love Toolkit™ today

$147
Now only $47

Love Without the Games? Yes, Please.

This toolkit is designed specifically for people with anxious attachment who want to get their head and heart into the right place for a secure relationship. You’ll learn to:

  • Update your template for what relationships should feel like in your life.

  • Break free from anxious patterns and attract a partner who’s committed, not avoidant.

  • Shift your mindset to build secure, lasting love.

Here’s What You Get Inside The Toolkit:

  • find your match - puzzle pieces fitting together

    Find Your Match

    Learn to navigate dating with anxious attachment, set boundaries, and avoid unhealthy dynamics.

  • How to pick your partner - love in your eye

    How to Pick Your Partner

    Get the tools and insights to confidently choose a partner who aligns with your values and needs.

  • Elevate Your Energy

    Self-soothing practices and visualization to help you attract your ideal relationship.

  • Secure Partner Checklist

    Learn to identify secure traits in a potential partner so you know where to invest your time and energy.



  • Guided Meditation

    Attract Your Loving Partner: Train your subconscious to recognize the right partner for you when you meet them.

Imagine…

  • A way to break free from anxious dating patterns and start attracting the secure love you’ve been longing for—all with essential tools you can learn in just one week.

  • You could finally feel calm and confident knowing exactly what you want and deserve in a relationship...

  • You could meet new potential partners without the weight of self-doubt or overthinking holding you back...

  • You could trust your choices and recognize when someone is truly right for you, making dating feel exciting instead of nerve-wracking...

  • You could have all of this while feeling supported and guided, making the process of finding secure love easier and more fulfilling than ever before...

It’s all yours when you get a copy of the Toolkit!

Get The Secure Love Toolkit™ today

$147
Now only $47

No More Red Flags. Just Confidence, Clarity, and Secure Love.

Imagine feeling confident in your dating decisions, recognizing secure traits in potential partners, and letting go of old anxious patterns. With the Anxious Attachment Toolkit™, that’s not just possible—it’s within reach.

Your Guide to Finding “The One” Without Losing Yourself.

The Anxious Attachment Toolkit has the tools to get you into a better place.
Created by a certified attachment practitioner who has been working with attachment styles since 2017 and has helped thousands through courses, one-on-one sessions, workshops, and social media.

Ready to Attract a Secure, Loving Relationship?

Make ghosting a thing of the past.
Attract the right partner. Build the secure love you crave.
Let’s elevate your energy, update your relationship template, and find your match.

Get your copy of The Secure Love Toolkit™ today

$147
Now only $47

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Absolutely! The Anxious Attachment Toolkit is designed to help you shift your mindset and emotional state using proven methods tailored specifically for those with anxious attachment. Even if you've been facing these patterns for years, this toolkit breaks down steps that are easy to follow and practical for long-term change.

  • The toolkit is designed with busy individuals in mind. The content is concise and can be integrated into your daily routine without overwhelming your schedule. You can likely get through the guides and exercises in a week. I recommend listening to the meditation (26 minutes) daily. Even dedicating 10-15 minutes a day to the Toolkit can make a significant difference.

  • The Anxious Attachment Toolkit combines attachment theory with somatic practices, guided meditations, and subconscious rewiring techniques that are unique to this program. My background as a certified attachment practitioner, somatic hypnotist, and coach ensures that the methods are effective and highly targeted.

  • This specific toolkit is geared toward single individuals who are looking to attract secure partnerships. If you’re currently dating or exploring new relationships, you’ll still find value in understanding your attachment style and learning how to attract secure connections.

  • No prior knowledge is necessary! The toolkit is user-friendly and breaks down complex concepts into simple, digestible pieces. Whether you’re new to understanding attachment styles or already familiar with them, this toolkit will guide you step-by-step.

  • The Toolkit includes a mix of formats: video lessons, illustrated guides with written exercises, a handy checklist, and an audio meditation. You can easily access it on your computer or phone, whether you’re at home or on the go (just make sure you’re in a quiet, relaxing spot for the meditation).

  • It’s completely self-paced, so you can dive into the content whenever it suits you best!

  • Everything you need is included within the Anxious Attachment Toolkit. From a guided meditation to practical exercises, you’ll have all the resources at your fingertips to start your journey toward secure relationships.

  • While no tool can guarantee results, the techniques in this toolkit are based on years of professional experience and have helped many individuals just like you. The content is designed to address your unique challenges with anxious attachment and to empower you to make real changes. Additionally, the Toolkit comes with a 14-day money-back guarantee. If you're not satisfied, simply reach out within 14 days for a full refund.

  • Yes! By understanding what secure relationships look like and aligning your mindset to attract them, you’ll enter the dating world with more confidence and self-assurance. Many people using these techniques have reported feeling more in control of their emotions and more selective about their partners.

  • It’s natural to feel apprehensive, but the toolkit is designed to be supportive and gentle. The guided meditations and somatic exercises help you feel safe as you explore these areas, making the process less intimidating and more empowering.

  • While the toolkit itself is a self-guided resource, you can stay connected through my social media pages where I share ongoing tips and encouragement. For those looking for more personalized support, additional one-on-one sessions are also available.

  • You’ll have lifetime access to the Anxious Attachment Toolkit! Once you purchase, it’s yours to revisit anytime, at your own pace. This way, you can return to the tools and exercises whenever you need a refresher or extra support on your relational journey.

  • While everyone’s timeframe is unique, many people start feeling more clarity and confidence within a few days of engaging with the exercises and content. By assessing your priorities, listening to the meditation daily, and using the self-regulation tools, you might see shifts in mindset and dating approach within a few weeks.

    The Toolkit is designed for steady, sustainable growth toward attracting secure love, encouraging you to implement changes at your own pace.

Hi, I’m Kayli Larkin.

Since 2017, I’ve been passionate about helping individuals with insecure attachment style feel more at ease, safe, and deeply connected in their relationships. I’m a certified attachment practitioner, somatic hypnotist, and relationship coach. Through my online courses and social media content, I’ve reached thousands, guiding them toward healthier and more secure connections.

I created the Secure Love Toolkit to empower single people with anxious attachment style to understand what a secure relationship truly looks like and to align their mindset and emotional state quickly. This toolkit is your guide to breaking old patterns and opening the door to secure, loving partnerships.

Less self-doubt, more self-assurance. Less anxiety, more confidence in love.

That’s what awaits you inside the Anxious Attachment Toolkit!

Testimonials for Kayli’s Courses

“WOW. This course has unlocked so much for me already and I haven't even finished it. I was getting pressured into something, and I was able to set a boundary, and it was received really well, and we moved into continuing to collaborate with each almost seamlessly. I can't believe it. I'm in shock.” — F.K.

“An effective framework for communicating boundaries. I gained greater confidence in communicating needs & a greater clarify around identifying needs vs. wants. My biggest struggle prior to taking the course was starting a boundaries conversation, and the tools in the course were particularly helpful.” — M.W.

“All of the sessions have been extremely helpful. The workbook… The audio sessions…. The course was excellent and well laid-out.” — S.S.

“I struggled to make sense of the dynamic in my relationship with a dismissive avoidant partner. Kayli’s courses and tools gave me the insight and strategies I needed to maintain my emotional grounding. Her meditations helped me connect with my inner strength, and I’ve seen a huge improvement in my confidence and ability to set healthy boundaries. The biggest benefit was learning to stay centered in my own values while navigating the complexities of the relationship.” - M.W.

”[All the course sections] resonated with me. They all had good examples…. It is important to know how to communicate my boundaries in a regulated and respectful way. Both methods of communicating boundaries were helpful.” - G.A.

“Seriously thank you for this course, it's already had an impact. The timing of this was perfect!” - F.K.

“I got so many tools in the class, and learned some new techniques too... I was blown away by the magic you created in the guided meditation.” - B.C

"[What has changed for me] is greater self esteem and the ability to speak up for my needs in a non blaming way." - Anon

Get your copy of The Secure Love Toolkit™ today

$147
Now only $47

Who is the Toolkit for?

  • Hopeful Healers

    You know you have some anxious patterns, and you’re tired of feeling like they keep you from the healthy, loving relationship you want. You’re ready to explore what a secure relationship really looks like and start making shifts to get there. With the Secure Love Toolkit, you’ll discover a clear, supportive path to break those old patterns and open yourself to a truly secure connection.

  • Dating Dreamers

    Dating feels like an emotional rollercoaster—you want to find “the one” but can’t seem to shake the worry and second-guessing that hold you back. Imagine dating with more ease, confidence, and clarity on what you truly want and need. The Secure Love Toolkit is your shortcut to transforming how you approach dating, so you can attract someone who feels safe, steady, and secure.

  • Self-Growth Seekers

    You’re big on personal growth and ready to work on creating a more secure version of yourself, but sometimes it feels like a challenge to move forward. With the Secure Love Toolkit, you’ll learn how to shift your mindset and feel more grounded and confident. This isn’t just about attracting a partner—it’s about transforming yourself so you can create and enjoy the relationships you’ve always wanted.

If you’ve gotten this far, you want help with:

  • Feeling less anxious and overwhelmed in your dating life.

  • Breaking free from patterns that keep leading to emotionally unavailable partners.

  • Figuring out what a secure, loving relationship looks like for you.

You wish there was a way to:

  • Know for sure when someone is the right match.

  • Spot red and green flags without second-guessing yourself.

  • Start dating with calm confidence instead of fear or doubt.

I’m here to help you with that.

The Secure Love Toolkit has everything you need to:

  • Feel clear and confident about what you want in a relationship.

  • Train your mind to recognize a secure partner when you meet them.

  • Align your mindset and energy to attract and identify the right kind of relationship for you.

Get your copy of The Secure Love Toolkit™ today

$147
Now only $47

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