Tired of Not Feeling Safe in Love?
Discover the secure attachment strategies to feel safe in your body and in love
If you’re searching for a way to feel safe in your body and in your relationships, you’ve come to the right place.
Do you resonate with any of these?
It’s been hard to manage your feelings
You may have even turned to unhealthy coping mechanisms so you could feel okay
You get triggered more than you or your friends and partners are comfortable with
The world felt like an unsafe place, even before 2020
You feel held back by your past
And in relationships, do any of these feel familiar?
At some point you stopped feeling like you could trust romantic partners, or maybe you’ve never had that feeling of being truly safe in relationships or in life — even when objectively you know you are
Relationships have been disappointing — even if they start well, they end with drama or disappearance, or a long cold freeze
Relationships might even seem unsafe, but you long to connect and just have a teammate, someone who shows up and supports you
Yet at the same time you seem to attract and be attracted to people who turn out to be disappointing if not outright toxic
It can all be so confusing, and then you just get overwhelmed and shut down emotionally
It’s not your fault
It’s okay, it’s not your fault. Even aside from all the craziness of 2020 and the years following — There are other reasons why you may not have felt safe, especially in relationships. These patterns may have started early due to behavioral conditioning, or they may have started generations before you — we know now from epigenetics that it didn’t start with us. We can inherit trauma from previous generations.
At the same time, there are steps you can take. Ways to make yourself feel safer in your own relationships. You can learn how to feel safe in your body and attract loving safe people into your life who meet your needs, even the ones you’ve stuffed down for so long in despair that anyone would ever measure up.
And you can change your unconscious response to the world, because much of that feeling of safety lies in your attachment system you developed when you were younger.
Change your attachment,
change your relationships
Discover the magic strategies to feel safe in your body and in love
Feel Safe Pack: A guide for fearful avoidant / disorganized attachment Listen to a guided meditation to
rewire the feeling of safety on a subconscious level
Learn 6 instant self-soothing strategies you can use anytime, anywhere to instantly shift your mood and feel more calm and relaxed
Get familiar with the 4 different attachment styles and where you fit in
The guided meditation alone normally goes for $24.95
It is designed specifically by a Somatic Attachment Practitioner and Board Certified Hypnotist to help you feel safe on an unconscious level.
These self-soothing strategies are exercises that I use with clients. They normally go for $9.95
Clients who say things like:
“I’m finally realizing I’m safe, I’ve always been safe,
and I don’t need to rely on other people to
make me feel that way” - A.N.
"Kayli taught me several techniques to quickly calm myself in stressful and highly emotionally charged situations so that I am now able to see these situations more objectively. From that objectivity I can now choose my response to them as an adult rather than reverting back to responses engrained in me as a child because of my childhood traumas." - E.L.
“I feel more free, I have more self love, and I’m not so negative” - A.N.
"I’ve used other techniques such as meditation or sports as outlets before but those haven’t served me in the moment. Kayli gave me tools that are proactive which have been invaluable and truly changed the way I handle stressors.” - E.L.
Imagine the changes in your relationships and in your life when you truly feel safe.
Get the Feel Safe Pack which includes:
A guided meditation to rewire the feeling of safety on an unconscious level (normally $24.95)
6 instant self-soothing strategies you can use anytime, anywhere to instantly shift your mood and feel more calm and relaxed whenever you want (normally $9.95)
Introduction to the 4 different attachment styles and where you fit in (normally $4.95)
Here is what you’ll learn in the guided meditation: Feel Safe - Inner Protector:
Feel Safe - Inner Protector is a guided auditory journey designed by Kayli Larkin CCHT to help you relax and visualize an inner sanctuary and protector. It contains relaxation and suggestions for training your mind and body toward a felt sense of safety.
We are able to connect with other people best when we ourselves are relaxed and calm. If someone is in a hyper vigilant state or on guard, their energy is turned toward self protection rather than connection, and a fight, flight, or freeze state can make people disengage or get into arguments rather than connect in a loving way.
Now it’s important to assess that relationships are objectively safe for us to be in, and to pick people to engage with who are safe, caring, and trustworthy people. We can learn how to access and trust our intuition around connecting with and partnering with people who are safe.
Yet sometimes people have trouble feeling safe even though they know that objectively they are in no danger. For example, when people have fearful or disorganized attachment style, they may have trouble accessing a felt sense of safety. They may also have difficulty soothing themselves, because their attachment system did not learn early on how to internalize a feeling of safety and calm from an attachment figure.
People can spend a lot of energy trying to change their environment to make themselves feel safe, and sometimes that feeling of safety needs to come from ourselves, in addition to choosing our environments and relational partners with care. On a deep level, you probably already know that it is possible to feel safe, because the feeling of safety comes from within.
This audio will guide you through the process of comfortably strengthening your own internal sense of safety, so that you can access an inner place of calm, and better trust in yourself and listen to your own intuition when it comes to relationships.
What you'll get in this relaxing guided auditory journey
A relaxing beautiful safe scene in nature or personal sanctuary
Relaxing breathing
Body relaxation
Inner protector
Body felt sense of protection and safety
Safety anchor so you can access this feeling on your own later
This meditation is good for
Feeling calm and safe
Disorganized or fearful attachment style
Picking safe relational partners
Avoiding toxic relationships
Having healthy relational boundaries
Empaths and highly sensitive people
19:55 mins, voice
I truly don’t know how long I will offer this pack.
Imagine the changes in your relationships and in your life when you finally feel safe.
Get your Feel Safe Pack now for only $27